Challenge
You’re an American manager and you are starting to mistrust your new Brazilian employee. When he needs to change or cancel an appointment or delivery date, he calls you and goes on for hours, explaining the personal reasons why he has to cancel. This makes you think he’s lying and using irrelevant excuses. Why can’t he just be direct and to the point?
Explanation
In the US, most people have a tendency not to mix work with personal life. They also value getting to the point as fast as possible, and believe that the longer the story, the more it sounds like an “excuse.” For Brazilians, on the contrary, the amount of explanation you give is proportional to how much you respect the person you are speaking with. To them, providing personal stories are much more meaningful…it makes a statement about the assumed level of trust.
Can you imagine how these differences in the way each side interprets behavior can affect their relationships and assessment of each other?

